How To Know If She Cheated On Me – Okay so I realize my blog has become somewhat dating-oriented but hear me out. My blog is a reflection of me and what I am going through in life. Since my recent breakup, I’ve been very motivated to write these types of posts—especially when I know it can help someone. I thought why not, since it’s my blog and I can post whatever content I want. Think of me as the big sister you always wanted because not only do I give #zerofucks but I’m also very open, down to earth, and real AF.
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How To Know If She Cheated On Me
So now finally what this post is really about: identifying fraudulent behaviors. Okay, so I know I’m no expert, but looking back at our (now ended) 7 year relationship, there were major red flags that my ex was cheating on me. I’m just sharing what I saw and what was foolishly ignored.
My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thought I Was Cheating
To be honest, I refused to believe that he was capable of fucking someone else (YUCK) and Itarulli had the best faith in him. To say that I loved her would be an understatement and my love and faith in her completely blinded me. But anyway, these are some things I should have talked about to save myself a few years of humiliation and heartbreak.
Trust me, I know you always want to believe the best in someone, but sometimes – if not always – actions speak much louder than words.
If someone is constantly messaging and talking to you and suddenly stops, it is not a coincidence. there is something. Chances are that if you ask a simple question like “how was your day”, you’ll get a half-baked answer compared to previous times where he’d go into great detail. Most times this withdrawal comes from the fact that they are filling that void by talking to someone else. By the time you send the message, they’ve already told someone in detail everything they did that day, so they won’t want to repeat it to you again.
Depending on how the other relationship is going, cheaters usually exhibit strong mood swings. They may either be angry at you or be kind and caring. Unless a person develops bipolar disorder overnight (obviously very unlikely), something is more likely to happen. They may blame it on work or family, but if the reasons aren’t consistent, you should be aware of other signs of cheating. I got a lot of crappy excuses from my ex and they kept changing regularly because he couldn’t decide which excuse to use because obviously, the real reason was that someone else was there – but he wasn’t doing it right. could say?
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This is where your significant other may suddenly start gifting you lavish items. If this wasn’t something that always happened in your relationship, you should probably pay attention to it. I’d always like to believe that boyfriends are capable of being loving all the time, but sudden excessive displays of affection – not just materialistic but also emotional/attentional – can result in one thing and one thing only: guilt. .
My ex once told me that he had his phone on airplane mode for date night and I stupidly said, “Oh, that’s so sweet, you wouldn’t want anyone to disturb us”. Can anyone detect the noise of a cricket chirping? Truth be told, any normal person with nothing to hide would have their phone on airplane mode with their partner. Obviously it is so
I was never one to dig up dirt. I never checked his Facebook account, I wanted to check his phone – literally nothing. So there were weird random times when I wanted his password to his laptop or when I innocently wanted to watch a YouTube video, he started acting legitimately suspicious and started typing it in himself. Basically it’s clear he won’t give me his password. The same applies to his phone also. I know some girlfriends would be mad, but as if my soul doesn’t have the capacity to behave like this, I left it. If you really have nothing to hide, giving your significant other (S.O.) your passwords should be no big deal.
My ex stumbled one day when my sister sent me a picture of him in a club with a girl with her arm around him. When I mentioned it, he got mad and deleted my best friends from Facebook and blocked him. excessive ikr. 6157932759019 Always had a tendency to become overly aggressive when I confronted them with fraud allegations. He would get upset to such an extent that he would get even more upset with me (Fact: something that ultimately led to me deciding to cut him out of my life). Ummmmm if someone can’t remain calm, cool and composed while answering simple questions then you should question where that attitude problem is coming from.
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Is your S.O. Suddenly developed a new hobby without telling you? Excessive drinking and clubbing? More than usual i.e. going out continuously without a break? I will always let my ex out. I never controlled him or questioned where he was going. When she practically developed a new habit of being in the club, I was just like, “Have fun,” “Be safe.” Clubbing was never in my habit anyway, so it never bothered me that he wanted to be there and apparently (now I found out) he was disgustingly drunk. Keep in mind that he was
When I met him like this, should I have paid more attention? Turns out he’s on the side
‘s entire existence was (and still is) focused on clubbing, smoking (EWWWWWWW) and drinking so it became their new “thing”.
When a guy isn’t strong enough (brave enough) to break up with you, he will start abusing you in an attempt to get you to the breaking point, in hopes that you will break up with him. #Coward Basically this can manifest through the behaviors identified in points 1-7. Just please remember, that anyone who truly loves you will
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Don’t want to put you through any kind of trouble. Be careful when someone is trying too hard to push you over the edge.
If there are whispers about cheating and people are coming to you to tell you that your S.O. Cheating- pay attention. where there’s smoke there’s fire. Rumors always keep flying about something or the other. A chance meeting with someone else, a picture/video, a friend telling a friend.
Thing. In my case, being a public person, I have always had to deal with haters (some people were extremely aggressive when they approached me) so I could never trust what people said. Were staying. But if 3-4 different people are telling you something then you should start paying attention. do your research. Get more information. If I had done this in 2015, I wouldn’t have wasted 2 more years
Oh my god, I almost forgot, if someone tells you the name of the person who is your S.O. Is. Is “with”, check them out on social media. this side
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I had been tweeting openly about my (ex) man for years. I have several screenshots where she is feeling proud (yes, as proud as can be) because she wants to “rank up” to be with “my man,”
Years”. IKR, the things people are proud of in life are amazing. But I mean I would expect this from someone who isn’t really adept at anything else.
When something is not right in your relationship. I was feeling pain in my stomach since 2013/2014, but it got better due to hiding your BS, so it finally went away
Faded into the background. Little did I know that it would always come back like a monster for the next 3 years when every year, I had to confront someone telling me that he was cheating. #VOMITS If you ever feel like this, listen up. Chances are you’re not far from the truth. However, the only thing is, will you listen?
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Disclaimer: I am not claiming to be a fraud expert. These are just red flags that were in my relationship. There may be hundreds more such signs (I firmly believe that cheaters are mentally ill) and some of the signs I have here may not be true for all individuals. These are based on my personal experience.
